OK...all day long I kept looking at the entrance map...Durendall.
It was getting so packed, I implemented something different.
When you first register, you get your own map. Which does not spawn any units. This map has one rune gate on it which will take you to durendall.
You can then go home later.
I think I in the future I will implement a feature that will send you home if you haven't logged in lately.